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Title: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: Hotrodslots69 on July 24, 2013, 08:28:51 PM Well where to start, I lost my 43 year old wife to cancer on December 6, 2012. My life has changed, a lot. It has taken time to find out what the new normal will be. I hope to start working on my slot machines again, they have sat unused for 8 months now. We thought Carrie had beaten her cancer, she was tested and monitored till November 5, 2012 when the U. of M. said it has returned and it is not fixable, stage 4, she only had weeks to live and they were correct, 31 days. To say I have been hit by a train would be putting it lightly. I miss talking talking to all of you, I hope to spend more time, I will spend more time living life and not working so much. I hope to chat with you all soon, when I find some crazy problem I can't fix... RIP Carrie Biederstedt 4/30/1969 - 12/6/2012 I will love you forever!
Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: FORDSBS on July 24, 2013, 09:39:28 PM Sorry for your loss. She was way too young. God Bless.
Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: CVslots on July 24, 2013, 10:04:41 PM Oh Hotrod, what an awful, heartbreaking tragedy you've been through. Makes us all take a moment and remember how precious life is, and to that we should never take it for granted. My deepest, deepest condolences to you.
Drop in more, hang around, and chime in anytime. You're more than welcome here! I dont know that we can be a part of your "new normal" though, as were not all that normal! :200- But, none the less, we're glad to see you back! Roslyn Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: slotsteve on July 25, 2013, 09:44:37 AM wow that sucks any age is to young but 43 is way too young , god bless you
Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: ghetto1971 on July 25, 2013, 09:55:04 AM Can't begin to imaging what you are going thru right now.
Don't know what I would do without mine. Very sorry for your loss. Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: Hotrodslots69 on July 25, 2013, 06:56:05 PM Thank You all for your kind thoughts !!!
Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: ROCKET on July 26, 2013, 09:53:09 AM >>>>>>>>It takes a strong person to post what you posted <<<<<<< :131- :131- :131-
Very sorry for your loss -as many say words cant express how one feels when you lose a loved one .its devastating no matter what age . if its sudden or expected -young or old. keep busy life has many twist & turns in the road of life -but the roads never end . glad to hear your posting & there is always someone on this forum to listen to you & understand your thoughts . Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: rickhunter on July 27, 2013, 02:31:48 PM I can sympathize with you. My father was diagnosed on Sept.29th 2012. He had stage 2 lung cancer. He was operated on the 14th to remove the right lung and we thought everything was going well, but he was never able to recover enough from the surgery to receive chemo, and thus it came back aggressively in april and we lost him 30 days after it resurfaced. It's been a long 8 months, and taking care of his estate is the most depressing thing I've ever done, it is almost like you are erasing him from record. I'm sorry for your loss, it is such a horrible thing to watch your loved one go through that.
Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: stayouttadabunker on July 29, 2013, 12:25:28 PM Hey Hotrodslots...we're always here if you wanna chat a bit okay? :89-
Man...what you're going through is a nightmare I'd think I'd have a hard time with. Remember all the good times about your honey but take good care of yourself too. I'm glad to see you back! :3- Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: Hotrodslots69 on July 29, 2013, 02:01:13 PM Thank you all for you kind thoughts and words!!! K+ to you all. Rodney
Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: 4 Deuces on July 29, 2013, 02:43:40 PM Welcome back man. Glad you're back. Hang in there buddy.
:254- Title: Re: Hello all its been a while ... Post by: CommTech on July 29, 2013, 03:20:00 PM So very sorry for you loss. It's good to have you back. God Bless!
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